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Old 05.07.2012, 11:20
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Hubby won't allow it and since I don't share, it is not going to happen!
we are all disappoint

To answer OP, if I were still dating I would totally date a bi girl just for the chance of a threesome. Every other straight dude would do the same and if they say otherwise they are a damn liar. It's so self evident that I can only conclude your original question is directed toward the womenfolks
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Old 05.07.2012, 11:23
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we are all disappoint

To answer OP, if I were still dating I would totally date a bi girl just for the chance of a threesome. Every other straight dude would do the same and if they say otherwise they are a damn liar. It's so self evident that I can only conclude your original question is directed toward the womenfolks
Ssshhh! You'll get us in trouble!

I can see it now...a question that ranks right up there with "Do I look fat in this?"..."Do you think about other sexual scenarios including other women?".
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Old 05.07.2012, 11:27
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But there is this psychological barrier that, yes, men who kiss men are gay. While women who kiss women are marriage material .... Since the chemical components are not the same then it kinda makes sense that the majority of people subconsciously see one as being fine and the other as being strange.

Most men do abide by the "one penis per fantasy rule".... Its just a way of life.
I always thought it was simple. Women are the fair sex. The first person we loved and who loved us back when we were babies was a women. Women on the whole are also more pleasant to look at. Both men and women look at good-looking women. Both men's magazine's and women's magazines have pictures of good-looking women. Even gays admit to admiring women for their looks. All in all, as humans, we are set up to like women. So I guess being a heterosexual female is much harder than being a heterosexual male, and thus its easier to lapse.
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Old 05.07.2012, 11:28
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if I were still dating I would totally date a bi girl just for the chance of a threesome. Every other straight dude would do the same and if they say otherwise they are a damn liar.
This might be true but I would strategically refuse such an offer specially if it was a lady I'm interested in, because if you flip this on it's head, she might want to have a '3sum' with you and another man and how could you refuse it if she plays the equality card
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This thread is making me horny.
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This thread is making me horny.
PM sent.

I got to her first boys!

Edit: inbox full (pardon the pun)
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Old 05.07.2012, 11:57
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I always thought it was simple. Women are the fair sex. The first person we loved and who loved us back when we were babies was a women. Women on the whole are also more pleasant to look at. Both men and women look at good-looking women. Both men's magazine's and women's magazines have pictures of good-looking women. Even gays admit to admiring women for their looks. All in all, as humans, we are set up to like women. So I guess being a heterosexual female is much harder than being a heterosexual male, and thus its easier to lapse.
I honestly find this a pretty silly explanation.

It is simple reality that men are educated from early childhood that being gay is wrong. Most kids in most cultures - even the oh so tolerant western world - learn that "gay" is synonymous for "totally stupid". And this seems to be the case in many languages, not only English. For women is it on the other hand pretty much socially accepted to be bi - so far that I would call it a fashion. Heterosexual ladies even seem to have to explain why they are not attracted or interested to at least try it out... even in this thread. Nobody told the same to the male posters here.

Given this pretty strong bias is it not surprising that you'll find many more selfproclaimed bi females than males. I can say that for myself this educational bias was already quite something to overcome when a friend had his coming out... and that is of course a magnitude less difficult to actively try something out. In short do I believe that even today the culture is that there is a lot of fear and ignorance towards male homosexuality - while there is hardly any porn movie without bi girls.

Bottom line: Phils dates are too porno...
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This thread is making me horny.
Of course that could mean she just wants to drive around in a FIAT being anti-social
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Most of my employees in West Africa have atleast 3 wives. Its normal if youre making over 20,000$ a year. Plus the food is much better in West Africa But if you like blonds, Utah is your next stop my friend.

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What about being in a relationship with two people?

I'm gonna immigrate to Saudi so I can have 4 wives! Amen! Allah Akhbar!
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This might be true but I would strategically refuse such an offer specially if it was a lady I'm interested in, because if you flip this on it's head, she might want to have a '3sum' with you and another man and how could you refuse it if she plays the equality card


well, maybe, if she's really hot, just don't cross swords...

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while there is hardly any porn movie without bi girls.
Is this fact?

I can not dispute this as I do not watch porn

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well, maybe, if she's really hot, just don't cross swords...
ha ha! It's not gay if the balls don't touch...
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Around 5 years ago i became best friends with a guy who confessed to me that hes gay but i thought he was bi... Or its just that everyone loves boobies straight,gay,bi. I think i gave him the courage to come out and he eventually turned full blown gay but deep inside i cared alot for him and if only he asked, i would have even dated him. True story
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full blown gay
Too much information.
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Too much information.

Well not really, i just meant if you compared it to when we just met, people thought were a couple.
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Well not really, i just meant if you compared it to when we just met, people thought were a couple.
Ah, ok, must have misunderstood it then... could you explain the boobies part?
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Most of my employees in West Africa have atleast 3 wives. Its normal if youre making over 20,000$ a year. Plus the food is much better in West Africa


3 wifes per 20k!!!!!!!!


I might have to move so i can achieve my childhood dream.


What time is it????


Hareem zeit.


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3 wifes per 20k!!!!!!!!
When it comes to salaries, it's not the size that matters.

Okay, maybe it is.
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Yes, we have one employee named Adolph. He is the highest paid of the bunch and had 7 wives. West Africa is inexpensive. 20k in Mali is like 500k in Europe. What amazes me though is that many Swiss men, originally from Africa, have double lives in Africa. They have their original wife here in CH. and then, rather than have just a mistress, they have 2 or three women who live in their home in West Africa. They are married to each girl. No one really says anything. I even know a French guy who works in DRC who has done this.... The women like it apparently.

One major complaint from all of these guys though is that the women seemingly all have their periods at the same time every month!!!!! So be ready for a headache or three.

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3 wifes per 20k!!!!!!!!


I might have to move so i can achieve my childhood dream.


What time is it????


Hareem zeit.


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This thread has had me in fits of laughter, you are a superb bunch
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