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Swiss dating sexuality

If you are straight, would you date someone who is bisexual? It seems that many women on the dating 'scene' (insofar as there is a dating scene in Switzerland ) are bisexual...
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Old 04.07.2012, 16:55
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Re: Swiss dating sexuality

Yes........hook me up bro!!


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Re: Swiss dating sexuality

Very important topic. Must know the answer.

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Yes .............
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Does it matter if they are bisexual? If they are with you they are with you, if they are shagging another person, same sex or otherwise, is called cheating.



*Did that just come out like Jeremy Kyle?
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If you are straight, would you date someone who is bisexual? It seems that many women on the dating 'scene' (insofar as there is a dating scene in Switzerland ) are bisexual...
How would you know if they are bi..?
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How would you know if they are bi..?
ask, or let it be a juicy surprise
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How would you know if they are bi..?
If you are in an honest relationship, I don't see why one would hide it.
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Then it gets complicated!

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ask, or let it be a juicy unknown
ask?
I somehow feel this would not get the relationship off to a good start
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Re: Swiss dating sexuality

Well, if you were a woman, would you really date a guy who was 'bisexual'? Would you be concerned that he was actually gay but hasn't fully 'come out' yet?

On the other hand, I have a friend who claims to be completely straight cisexual, but she sure kisses women and suggests having threesomes (MFF) a lot for someone who is supposedly 'straight'...
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Only if it's hidden. If it's all out in the open than I can't see how it's 'cheating'.

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Re: Swiss dating sexuality

People's sexual orientation gives zero guarantee on how responsible or loyal they would be. I think what matters is how sure one is of one's own sexuality. And the rest is the usual biz, straight or not.
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On the other hand, I have a friend who claims to be completely straight cisexual, but she sure kisses women and suggests having threesomes (MFF) a lot for someone who is supposedly 'straight'...
Phone number?
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Only if it's hidden. If it's all out in the open than I can't see how it's 'cheating'.
Ah, that'll be my smutty, seedy mind at play...
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Re: Swiss dating sexuality

What does it matter if she's into girls as well? In the worst case she'll come home frustrated for not having had proper sex and in the best case you can join in.

I've been with a girl for a few months who claimed to be bisexual and I couldn't care less, which honestly seemed to surprise her, silly fantasies aside.
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Re: Swiss dating sexuality

I couldn't care less either. I've been surprised at the number of men I've met who have been at least bi-curious.

I'm always a bit jealous of bisexual people as they increase their pool of potential partners. Unfortunately, I really, really hate lady bits.
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