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dating/relationship consultant ?

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I was looking for a consultant that can help approaching women/girls reading their signals etc in Zurich. does anybody has a clue where can i find one? i mean i found this website :
http://www.dating-coaching.ch/

but thats not what i want as the coach apparently tries to teach you how to do a date the right way. but i'm looking for one step before, how would you approach and ask for a date in first place is what i mean.

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You need a life coach
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Hey all

I was looking for a consultant that can help approaching women/girls reading their signals etc in Zurich. does anybody has a clue where can i find one? i mean i found this website :
http://www.dating-coaching.ch/

but thats not what i want as the coach apparently tries to teach you how to do a date the right way. but i'm looking for one step before, how would you approach and ask for a date in first place is what i mean.

thanks

May I know how old are you? Just curious...
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That's just mean. The poor guy has trouble talking or chatting up the ladies. There is nothing wrong with that! He has enough confidence and common sense to realize it and seek help!

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Ace that was mean. OP has reached out several times on this forum (theres a pattern) and received little real support. Ridicule is not helpful and one might retort with actually it's you who needs a life! You both joined forum at similar te so assuming you're not both the same person I will try and answer the OP

1. The link you sent appears to cover also the "approaching" side of dating. I have no idea whether they are a good company or not, but the fact that they focus on dating might mean they can help you.

2. There is such a thing as a "flirt coach", I know one (excellent as a executive coach for corporates which is where I know her) based in Bern area who coaches in English. Can also do by phone.

3. A good professional coach would be able to help with any fear/resistance/blocks to approaching women including increasing confidence if that's what's needed.

I hope this is helpful. Feel free to PM for more.

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Groundhog day part II, or is it III?
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Phil_MRC will help you out.
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Old 18.07.2012, 11:56
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And Phil is a genius with computers.

To the OP. Maybe just try talking to a few women who you are not wanting to get romantically involved with and get comfortably with jut talking to women in general. See what happens as your confidence grows?
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Are you guessting he talks to prozzies?

Or using ugly birds as an ego booster?
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That's just mean.
I detect a sense of humour failure.

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The poor guy has trouble talking or chatting up the ladies. There is nothing wrong with that! He has enough confidence and common sense to realize it and seek help!
Sorry, but I can't possibly take someone seriously who thinks the answer to such basic life skills is to look for a 'consultant' to help them. Better to just get out and join in with the social events posted here or elsewhere and try to meet people. Hence I thought 'get a life' a valid response to the OP.
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Old 18.07.2012, 12:34
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Re: dating/relationship consultant ?

Check out some of the Zurich based www.meetup.com groups and go along to a few of the events for the sake of the event. You will be with folk who share a common interest by definition and are looking to meet others who share that interest.

Just practice talking with people, girls too of course but without thinking about a dating objective. Remember talking is 50% listening, 25% asking about the other person, and 25% talking about yourself.

If you get on and you think she is free suggest meeting for a coffee or lunch. It's much less of a "risk" for either of you than committing to a whole evening.

Remember any rejection is not personal and beauty is more than skin deep.
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