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Old 21.08.2012, 23:51
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Re: Just saw a mother beating the living sh1t out of her kid in Rhine Falls area...

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than elaborate please...why doesn't it make any sense?

...although I can understand why you might think that...
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Old 21.08.2012, 23:54
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...and physical intervention is the only way...am I right?

you "pro-slappers" answer this...if there was a way to achieve the same discipline without any physical intervention, what would you choose?

A) Non-physical
B) Physical

should we do a poll?
LOL... here we go again, praying at the temple of the closed mind, and at the shrine of intolerant righteousness. Your total inability to grasp that many parents DO NOT WANT to be told how to discipline their children, that is the objection to most of this thread, not that folk want or do go around happyslapping there kids with gay abandon, and only an idiot would continue to think that is the case.

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it makes all the sense in the world....

just answer...
Only to you, but then....

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Old 21.08.2012, 23:57
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LOL... here we go again, praying at the temple of the closed mind, and at the shrine of intolerant righteousness. Your total inability to grasp that many parents DO NOT WANT to be told how to discipline their children. That is the objection to most of this thread, not that folk go around happyslapping there kids with gay abandon, and only an idiot would continue to think that is the case.
simple question...very easy to answer
c'mon, you can do it...
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than elaborate please...why doesn't it make any sense?

...although I can understand why you might think that...
Well, it's a loaded question to start with which, I suspect, is just to further your own heavily biased agenda.

You have spent this entire thread throwing unfounded accusations and basically doing your damnedest to inflame everyone. Everyone "gets" that you have issues with any form of physical discipline so really your work here is done.

You can go on with your hardline extremism under the thinly veiled heading of "browbeating anyone who disagrees with you" but really it has run its course.

I'm out until the discussion becomes a bit less hysterical.
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simple question...very easy to answer
c'mon, you can do it...
Now you are just trolling...with emoji's

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Well, it's a loaded question to start with which, I suspect, is just to further your own heavily biased agenda.

You have spent this entire thread throwing unfounded accusations and basically doing your damnedest to inflame everyone. Everyone "gets" that you have issues with any form of physical discipline so really your work here is done.

You can go on with your hardline extremism under the thinly veiled heading of "browbeating anyone who disagrees with you" but really it has run its course.

I'm out until the discussion becomes a bit less hysterical.
Now now Sandy, you should know, dont' feed the.....

I'm waiting for the purple brigade to claim some form of decisive debate victory now, sadly all the 'Do it our way 'coz we think it's best lot' have only proved that continuious repetition dulls the senses of normal well balanced and objective folk. I bet they train there kids that way too... bore them into submission.

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Old 21.08.2012, 23:59
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Re: Just saw a mother beating the living sh1t out of her kid in Rhine Falls area...



'oo are you calling a slapper?
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Old 22.08.2012, 00:09
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Re: Just saw a mother beating the living sh1t out of her kid in Rhine Falls area...

Nowt as extreme as an extremely annoying person making a fuss, good job there are some people there to assist in modifying the behaviour... But no need for guns eh.

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Old 22.08.2012, 00:09
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Well, it's a loaded question to start with which, I suspect, is just to further your own heavily biased agenda.

You have spent this entire thread throwing unfounded accusations and basically doing your damnedest to inflame everyone. Everyone "gets" that you have issues with any form of physical discipline so really your work here is done.

You can go on with your hardline extremism under the thinly veiled heading of "browbeating anyone who disagrees with you" but really it has run its course.

I'm out until the discussion becomes a bit less hysterical.
Oh yes, this is my own personal hysterical crusade... bye now
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Old 22.08.2012, 00:19
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Re: Just saw a mother beating the living sh1t out of her kid in Rhine Falls area...

I called the child abuse helpline.



The kid who answered told me to to get lost.
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Old 23.08.2012, 15:55
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So if my kid misbehaves and receives a smack he will be terrorised for life? So basically if he is bad and i sent him to his room it means that im abandoning him?
I find it amazing how little people pay attention to what is being said, versus what they think they have heard or read

tell me where "terrorised" or anything close to that came from me. Come on...
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Old 23.08.2012, 15:56
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it is not parenting through fear, but rather through the teaching of cause and effect.
i do not disagree that it is cause and effect, but, for me.. the effect is the fear of how it feels to be smacked...
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Old 23.08.2012, 16:29
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i do not disagree that it is cause and effect, but, for me.. the effect is the fear of how it feels to be smacked...
as long as it is limited to fear of getting smacked as a result of doing something wrong, then it seems fine to me. although, of course, "smacked" is a heavy-handed term for what is quite often a simple tap on the side of the head or the butt, and by "wrong" I obviously mean an act or omission that is significantly wrong to involve the risk of injury, serious property damage or, in the case of sons, disrespect of their mother.

the key is that the fear is limited to fear of the smack, not fear of the parent. although with boys a little fear of the old man is always healthy.

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Old 23.08.2012, 16:37
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Ok I'll take the 48hr ban for the majority of the forum.
Transistor, you are an asshole, now pi$$ off and let the adults have a decent debate about adult topics.

See you all in 48hr maybe
So, are you happy you got away with it?

And did you feel you got the support you so deservedly have by calling me an abusive name. Well done again. Your method of bullying is exactly the same as you supporting something like hitting a child, attack the defenceless (like me on a forum here where you know probably nothing will come of it) but did I abuse you back, no, I didn't.

Another victory on my side BonBon I'm afraid.
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Old 23.08.2012, 16:39
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So, are you happy you got away with it?

And did you feel you got the support you so deservedly have by calling me an abusive name. Well done again. Your method of bullying is exactly the same as you supporting something like hitting a child, attack the defenceless (like me on a forum here where you know probably nothing will come of it) but did I abuse you back, no, I didn't.

Another victory on my side BonBon I'm afraid.
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Old 23.08.2012, 16:42
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LOL... here we go again, praying at the temple of the closed mind, and at the shrine of intolerant righteousness. Your total inability to grasp that many parents DO NOT WANT to be told how to discipline their children, that is the objection to most of this thread, not that folk want or do go around happyslapping there kids with gay abandon, and only an idiot would continue to think that is the case.



Only to you, but then....
Forgive me for saying but surely the thread was about someone seeing in public a child getting hit by their mother.

Now please, if you want to plonk yourself on a forum all day consistently sticking your neck out with your opinion....get the facts right.
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Does this still go on? ------barbaric-------
I live opposite a family with twins in the AUW area.Been here three weeks.The children get hit daily and i would like a number for social services to report this abuse.I am shocked.
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Another victory on my side BonBon I'm afraid.
Claiming 'Victory' in an internet discussion says all anyone could want to know about you, I'm afraid. It's a bit like Godwin's law - the one who claims victory first is by definition the one who's lost.
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Re: Just saw a mother beating the living sh1t out of her kid in Rhine Falls area...

Reading back over this mammoth thread, is it me or are *most of the people who are against physically disciplining children the most extreme in their choice of words and come across as the most aggressive?

There is an awful lot of aggression towards those posters who have even only mildly defended physical discipline.

To me, that says a lot...


* by "most" I don't mean "all".
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Reading back over this mammoth thread, is it me or are *most of the people who are against physically disciplining children the most extreme in their choice of words and come across as the most aggressive?

There is an awful lot of aggression towards those posters who have even only mildly defended physical discipline.

To me, that says a lot...


* by "most" I don't mean "all".
I'd actually say that given the idiotic excuses the pro's have been using trying to defend their actions the reaction by the anti's isn't that bad in terms of an 'aggressive' reaction.

The classic is of course by BonBon, who told us that he firmly advocated a third party hitting his child with the right amount of force in the right situation, what a complete to55er.
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For sake of argument, would you it be acceptable if the situation happened, say on a school trip, and the teacher in charge dealt an identical smack to your child?
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If it was how I described and it was a smack to the back of the legs like I described then yes, absolutely.
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I'd actually say that given the idiotic excuses the pro's have been using trying to defend their actions the reaction by the anti's isn't that bad in terms of an 'aggressive' reaction.

The classic is of course by BonBon, who told us that he firmly advocated a third party hitting his child with the right amount of force in the right situation, what a complete to55er.
Just for clarity, I did not say a third party, who could be anybody.
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