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I wanted some advice on Swiss Men! where to find decent, nice,carring, well educated swiss guys? Seeking for swiss men between 36-40+ , English or dutch speaking. Please recommend the dating sites or any local place for singles, divorced and unhappy men
by the way I am dutch
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Old 20.03.2015, 14:37
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Hi,
I wanted some advice on Swiss Men! where to find decent, nice,carring, well educated swiss guys? Seeking for swiss men between 36-40+ , English or dutch speaking. Please recommend the dating sites or any local place for singles, divorced and unhappy men
by the way I am dutch
You want " ..... decent, nice, caring, well educated ..... and unhappy men?"
You need some Dutch courage.
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Old 20.03.2015, 14:49
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You want " ..... decent, nice, caring, well educated ..... and unhappy men?"
You need some Dutch courage.

I mean single=unhappy with me he would have a chance being happy

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Aaaaaand we're off, with a proper Friday thread!
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I mean single=unhappy with me he would have a chance being happy
Can you provide evidence that with you "a chance" is greater than that found with any other person?

So attractive people only attract A-holes? Are you attracted to attractive people?
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Make sure your selection doesn't fall into the wrong Kanton
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Can you provide evidence that with you "a chance" is greater than that found with any other person?

So attractive people only attract A-holes? Are you attracted to attractive people?
in my thread I clearly stated what kind of guys I am looking for ( carring, decent, well educated)
And correct me if I wrong, but I never mention that he would be ONLY HAPPY with me, what stated is that he would be happy by not being alone

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Sorry to break this to you, but no genuinely good looking woman of sound mind and temperament would even think of making a thread like this. There's probably a reason that you are single and looking to specifically target a Swiss man.
wow, what a statement, it seems like you live next door to me

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Old 20.03.2015, 15:13
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in my thread I clearly stated what kind of guys I am looking for ( carring, decent, well educated)
And correct me if I wrong, but I never mention that he would be ONLY HAPPY with me, what stated is that he would be happy by not being alone
We have established what you want - but what have you got to give?

If you are not well educated you are unlikely to be able to communicate as equals - anyone entering in to such a relationship is unlikely to be decent. (The Swiss refer to this as being someone on your side of the manure pile).

It is worth remembering that the 36-40+ men who are "carring, decent, well educated" are likely to be married. And even if they were unhappy as a decent person you wouldn't be pursuing them.

You also assume that someone is happier in a relationship than alone - that is not always the case!
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in my thread I clearly stated what kind of guys I am looking for ( carring, decent, well educated)

Yes, so you keep saying, but you need to be more specific if you want our help. Carrying what?
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Re: how to date a swiss men

I empathize with Dutch-Glory. There are a lot of women in Switzerland with exactly the same problem. I like circa 1950's, large, fit but pudgy/cuddly, well-educated, intelligent, intuitive, humorous men. Looks, language and nationality are irrelevant. But they are not attracted to me. They are mostly after beautiful young models, of which there are plenty in CH. Meanwhile, I am still getting asked out by young, very fit and attractive, flirty men who say they like 'solid' women.

I would suggest Dutch-Glory, that you look through some similar dating threads on the forum match them with the responses above to know who to avoid. Don't even give them one chance.
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by the way I am dutch
I guess they will possibly need to be desperate too. Either way you had better be very good looking, because the rest of your competition will be.
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Either way you had be better be very good looking, because the rest of your competition will be.
very good looking,- that is not my problem , this why I am attracking a lot of asshols
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very good looking,- that is not my problem ,

well, prove it
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well, prove it
why do i have to prove it to you? I am here for advice not for judgment
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why do i have to prove it to you? I am here for advice not for judgment

LOL you came to the wrong place then
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