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i think there is a selection bias here. these people actively seek you out. its a bit like saying, "i work in a prison and i can tell you 'most' people are criminals - i see them all day".



who should i blame? the russians?



acknowledged - some might say they are reservedly polite and don't wear a facade.... and if you want to start comparing the number of immigrants queuing to get into a country .... but let's not go there...
I think you have a serious issue with Americans / the US. Your issue may be very personal and closed minded to your own beliefs. Americans are suffering due to the decisions made by their President (still need to find someone who voted for him). They have their own cultural behaviors like the Swiss, Indians, Chinese.......no culture or country is perfect in any sense. They all have trade offs. I met in conferences a couple Swiss that love that US and do not want to go back to Switzerland while I waited 2 years for a work permit in Switzerland. I am sure I will find Switzerland dysfunctional in many ways when compared to the US / Bermuda and super amazing in many other ways compared to the same. I hope you work out your issues with the US / Americans. Open your horizons It is 2018 !
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No ones that desperate...
Nothing to do with desperation, it is simply a male dream, going up to a woman and asking for a shag without all the ballast that goes with a relationship.
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Nothing to do with desperation, it is simply a male dream, going up to a woman and asking for a shag without all the ballast that goes with a relationship.
Is it not the point of all / any of these applications or websites? It's all about getting a shag really, you can wrap it up any way you want, fancy profiles and professional matching, it's the same goal no? (1)

Hello Ms X, would you like to go out for dinner to McDo? >> Tinder-translate >> I would like you to lift your tail but i shouldn't say that directly.

Seems though that apps/sites that offer the truth are considered to be vulgar, was it ashley maddison the famous one? (2)


I mean if people really wanted something else, like a salsa partner, they'd find one at a salsa class, not on tinder, no?




(1) I actually haven't tried them, wife would likely not approve.
(2) Because they are blocked by the office pr0n filters
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the you stalk the shit out of them
There's apps for that too
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Seems though that apps/sites that offer the truth are considered to be vulgar, was it ashley maddison the famous one? (2)
Wasn't that where all the "females" turned out to be either bots or other males?
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Wasn't that where all the "females" turned out to be either bots or other males?
No. It's the 'discreet' service for mainly married people, whose client base hacked and published.
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How you do that if the blogs are fill with expats women complaining that the men do not approach them on bars and chatting anyone up casually is getting back awkward looks?
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Men do not approach women at bars or public places...or engage in small talk...
I'm not in the "dating market" anymore, but I guess you can "thank" rabid feminists for this development, with all their talk about "sexism", "mansplaining", "harassment" etc.
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