I do sympathise with anyone that has these kind of genuine problems, but even so in the end it requirse the OP to do something about it, as they well know. Saying sweet meaningless nothings and mollycoddling people won't change that. In the end the OP needs to realise that they have been lucky enough to be able to move here with a stable job in a very safe country with the worlds best quality of life... I have known people in worse situations. OP, it's time to get yourself out there and make new experiences.