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"Your German is not good enough..."

My son got this. He arrived in Switzerland aged 10, with no German. He got to secondary, having got the highest maths results in the canton, including a question no-one else solved. He went to Gym, and ended up with a masters in Physics from Basel University. Throughout that (University excepted), the refrain from a few teachers* "Your German is not good enough..."

My daughter rose from Real Schule to Secondär to Gym. Thence to a prestigious apprenticeship, BM, now studying for a degree in Pharmaceutical Engineering at the FHNW. Throughout that (FHNW excepted), the refrain from a few teachers* "Your German is not good enough..."

My other daughter, Secondär, FMS, (Got a degree at the Open University in French and German), C2 German from the Goethe institute, and now at an FH to gain a teaching qualification for Primary. throughout that (OU and Goethe Institute excepted), the refrain from a few teachers* "Your German is not good enough..."

In all cases, their German teachers have said "What? Your German is fine". Weird, huh? I wonder who is right? (The sad thing is, some of these people make decisions based on their unqualified opinion)

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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

Wonder what isn’t good enough? I’d have thought they’d be fluent!? Sounds more like Xenophobia to me.
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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

I don't think it's xenophobia. I'm not really sure what it is though.

It could have been worse. We could have stayed in England... Everywhere has its own challenges.
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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

At least speaking as a native anglophone, given that our language doesn't have gender or cases, and hardly any need to differentially conjugate verbs (I go, you go, we go, they go... I went, you went, we went, they went), I think anglos don't really have the capacity to understand just how many ways it is possible to make mistakes in other languages. It has nothing to do with your ability to find the right words, but if you use "die" instead of "der" or say something is "bon" when it should be "bonne" grates on the ears of native speakers, even if we can't tell the difference.

Where I'm from it's not uncommon to hear people say things like "I seen you at the store the other day", or "I ain't never done that". To me it's normal and understandable, but I know people from the big cities find it quaint/cute/wrong.


I'm sure your kids are dead fluent, and the mistakes your kids make that native speakers pick up on are inconsequential in terms of the overall meaning of the message. The problem is that some pedants want to nitpick over minor details that aren't even on the radar of someone whose first language is English.

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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

My eldest (9) who was born here also gets this although his German was professionally assessed as being fine. I think a large part is the accent, he speaks English at home so will never have a guttural Swiss German accent.
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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

Probably it’s ignorance, fear of competition and insecurity, or both. I have been told “Your German is good” (whenever I excuse myself on occasions when speaking my kinda pidgin German interwoven with English words due to lack of knowledge of the right words at the right time). And my level is only B1/B2 max. Not even close to C2 required by the Unis standards.
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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

Was the problem oral or written German? I assume no highly specialized technical job require to be good at speaking, just writing.

But I understand. That's why I take a more or less cynical approach to language learning beyond the mother one: I'm never going to reach to the level of being good enough, ever. I will always make more grammar and orthography mistakes than the average elementary school children in their mother language. I will always have an accent. So? Focus on other stuff, in my case it's the technical one.

Hard to believe your son never answered I'm a physicist not writing engaging speeches for politicians. Same for your daughter: my thing is pharmaceutical eng., not a German literature professor.

I think the focus on languages on popular culture comes from the fact students are classified between gymnasium and trade school based on performance, and part of the performance is language. I think I'm a walking trigger of bad memories for all the people that wanted to go to gymnasium and university and could not because their German was not good enough. The listen to me talking or read an email from me and just wonder how the f*** I got accepted into university in first place.
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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

For context, first daughter got here age 4. Second age 6. They're fluent. With the first, she speaks dialect like a native - people don't know she wasn't born here. The other has an English accent if she's flustered or doesn't concentrate.

My son doesn't give a toss.
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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

I’m so sorry he had to hear that. I’ve been told the same thing and, unfortunately, I believed it.

With all the “foreigners” in Switzerland, schools are finding German fluency to be an increasing problem. I don’t know what the answer is but lack of fluency May effect your ability to get a job or attend further education.

My only suggestion would be to be persistent and ignore the naysayers for as long as possible. Also, increased reading in German as well as practicing writing will also help immensely.

Good luck!
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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

I am also perpetually frustrated at how intolerant my francophone friends are with my French. Sometimes people I meet for the first time tell me that I speak with such a good accent it's only well into the conversation when they realize I'm not a native speaker. But my good friends have no shame in correcting my often not-quite-correct vowel sounds. "Bossie, it's not an e, it's an eeeuh." Or gender: "It's not un répétiton, it's une répétition. Seriously, to-may-to, to-mah-to. I'm a North American married to Brit and we have developed our own hybrid accent in the household. I have a pretty liberal attitude towards how many acceptable ways there are to pronounce vowels.


I work in English with almost exclusively non-native speakers with a large variety of accents and fluency, and some of the pronunciations I hear are interesting, but I always understand them and NEVER correct anyone unless they are so far off people might think they mean something else. I also don't care at all that they don't speak English perfectly.

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My eldest (9) who was born here also gets this although his German was professionally assessed as being fine. I think a large part is the accent, he speaks English at home so will never have a guttural Swiss German accent.
I think some of it English. I think some of it could be that Swiss native speakers make a different category of errors, that don't quite jar as much. Although overall, the German is still pretty good. Remember - this is a minority of teachers, maybe 20-40%. By no means all.

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My only suggestion would be to be persistent and ignore the naysayers for as long as possible. Also, increased reading in German as well as practicing writing will also help immensely.
My second daughter was told the refrain by one of her professors, and retorted "I have C2 German from the Goethe Institute".... the professor was so apologetic, and began to consider other reasons for the perceived problem. (E.g. she gabbles under stress, regardless of language).

But yes, this is the strategy we've adopted. Challenge where necessary, always try to cooperate. And inform.

Funny thing - the second daughter is a published author in Switzerland... writing in German.
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I don't think it's xenophobia. I'm not really sure what it is though.
Some people like to rub in their superiority with mother tongue

I don't think your kids cared ( I hope), despite all they made it so far. Congrats on their fantastic success. I don't think they needed the extra challenge from naysayers, but people do weird things..

What's gabble?
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...some of the pronunciations I hear are interesting...
I never got around to correcting my CIO when he said "that he tries hard to get his pronounce-iation correct" . because I started choking on my orange juice and had to leave the room.
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That's why I take a more or less cynical approach to language learning beyond the mother one: I'm never going to reach to the level of being good enough, ever. I will always make more grammar and orthography mistakes than the average elementary school children in their mother language. I will always have an accent. So? Focus on other stuff, in my case it's the technical one.
The thing is, I think it is very possible/relativley easy for non-native anglophones to achieve something close to fluency in English. My boss is an adult learner of English and has never lived in an anglophone environment, but I don't hear him make a grammatical or "pronounce-iation" error that would raise one of my eyebrows more often than once a month. Ditto for many of my colleagues.

But I've given up on writing in French. I know every word I want to use, but I just can't be arsed to spend ages double-checking the gender of nouns I rarely use, or looking up verb conjugations that differ in orthography but not pronunciation. Waste. Of. My. Time.

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My son doesn't give a toss.




great- but lol, what is his German like? (jesting)



Part of the issue here, as it would be in most of Europe- is that a good command of the language, be it oral, written or aural comprehension, and writing/grammar is essential for all students to go on to Gym- or University.


Whereas in England- post 16 Edu is so narrow and specialised- you can excel in A'Levels in Sciences, IT, Art, Design, etc- with 'just' a C at GCSE (end of school exam), and it it possible to re-take separately later if failed, whilst doing the 2 years of A'Level in chosen subjects only.


The daughter of a friend of mine, born and bred here, both Swiss parents and local to her school- failed her Matu because of 1/2 a point in maths- had to re-take the whole year. Got help with maths, and then failed ... for 1/2 point in German (French speaking area)- and that was that. Criminal I feel- especially as she wanted to study music. It took her years to get over this.
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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

My two sons, who are born here, heard this all throughtout their school lives. Now that they are out in the working world of Switzerland and nobody knows that they have an English speaking parent and only speak English at home, all they hear is how good their German is and how outstanding their English is.
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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

Had an ex girlfriend (Parisienne, of course) who would bitch that "it's just not possible that you speak French so well but have such a shit accent, you must be faking it to annoy me!"

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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

Raymond Blanc (celebrity Chef in UK) annoys me- he has been in England for 50 years + and he truly cultivates his exaggerated French accent. Mind you, I'd kill to go and stay at Le Manoir aux Quatre Saisons in the Cotswolds.
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Raymond Blanc (celebrity Chef in UK) annoys me- he has been in England for 50 years + and he truly cultivates his exaggerated French accent. Mind you, I'd kill to go and stay at Le Manoir aux Quatre Saisons in the Cotswolds.
It's part of his charm. C'mon, a French chef without a thick French accent?
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Re: "Your German is not good enough..."

It sounds like all of your children have excelled wonderfully.

Most people in Switzerland don't have a College Degree; let alone in real and important subjects, along with high levels of fluency in German and English.

Sounds like they have any possibility they could imagine!

"Your German is not good enough" For what?

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