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Old 07.02.2016, 00:55
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Re: How do I get my marriage annulled?

Fred is a"Newbie" do we have to be nice to him ?
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Old 07.02.2016, 00:59
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Re: How do I get my marriage annulled?

One can get really confused by the posters gender. You never know these days

Maybe the problem is that it was the same gender marriage and hence the confusion with canonical repercussions in RC church
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Re: How do I get my marriage annulled?

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A simple question to you, how any educated person in the 21st Century could get married & then at some point in the future realised they 'Fxxked up' but want an annulment rather than a divorce beats me.

Fatmanfilms BTW is a man, don't think I have ever been called 'sweetie' either, however I won't loose any sleep.
I know that you're a man. Your chauvinistic concern over my sex belies that. As does your potentially misguided assumption that I'm female.

Like I said, all comments that I've seen on the thread have some semblance of importance, in varying degrees and for varying reasons. Sorry that I fingered you. Nothing personal. I appreciate your input nonetheless. Enjoy the rest of your weekend.
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Old 07.02.2016, 10:05
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Re: How do I get my marriage annulled?

Sounds more like "The Crying Game".

My advice: Hire a lawyer Honey Buns.
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Old 07.02.2016, 10:18
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A simple question to you, how any educated person in the 21st Century could get married & then at some point in the future realised they 'Fxxked up' but want an annulment rather than a divorce beats me.
If the OP has a Catholic background, then it makes perfect sense, if the marriage was not consummated and was grounded on a deception, to seek annulment. I can't understand why you find this hard to comprehend!

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Old 07.02.2016, 10:40
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If the OP has a Catholic background, then it makes perfect sense, if the marriage was not consummated and was grounded on a deception, to seek annulment. I can't understand why you find this hard to comprehend!

But I bet you are one!
The OP has now been married for 3 years. I am amazed the question was not asked earlier in the marriage. On the balance of probabilities the rest of the story is hard to believe.
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Old 07.02.2016, 10:54
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Re: How do I get my marriage annulled?

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your potentially misguided assumption that I'm female.
Given you want an annulment from an institute that doesn't recognise same sex marriage, you claim to have married in a country that hasn't legalised same sex marriage and that you refer to your possible partner as a he, it's not that wild an assumption.

But given that there are no women on the Internet, and even fewer honest males, you might have a point though.
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Old 07.02.2016, 11:35
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Re: How do I get my marriage annulled?

Not sure I get this annulment business. Do people not have to pay maintenance if it's annulled or is it just so they can get married again later in a church?
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Old 07.02.2016, 12:02
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Not sure I get this annulment business. Do people not have to pay maintenance if it's annulled or is it just so they can get married again later in a church?
In CH the payments would be the same, so it's just so they can have a second go in a Church.
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Old 07.02.2016, 14:55
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Love is only one aspect and it isn't some mystical Care Bear dream that conquers all else regardless. If someone is deeply religious then that is an equally significant aspect of their life and they have every right to want to love someone who shares those same core values.

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Old 07.02.2016, 15:03
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The OP has now been married for 3 years. ....
Missed that bit.
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Old 07.02.2016, 15:21
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Re: How do I get my marriage annulled?

"I am sorry Erica I can't marry you . I am already married , to a man " Uhhhhhh This would be hard to explain
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Re: How do I get my marriage annulled?

Imagine the girl is really beautiful. He is desperate to get her and "of course believes in God". It could be a little lie in order to get the girl but doesn't this happen in many many marriages?
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Old 07.02.2016, 17:41
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Re: How do I get my marriage annulled?

The OP has now been married for 3 years. ....

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Missed that bit.
And if she carries on like that she won't get her marriage annulled anytime soon
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Old 07.02.2016, 18:18
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Sorry that I fingered you. Nothing personal. I appreciate your input nonetheless. Enjoy the rest of your weekend.
You did what?! And now you say sorry and are asking for an annulment?!
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Old 07.02.2016, 18:21
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You did what?! And now you say sorry and are asking for an annulment?!
It won't go down well at the church registrar or etat civil, will it?
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Old 07.02.2016, 20:05
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Imagine the girl is really beautiful. He is desperate to get her and "of course believes in God". It could be a little lie in order to get the girl but doesn't this happen in many many marriages?
What telling porkies to get tail? No! That will never, ever happen.
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