Re: custody of a child of unmarried parents
I only know how it is dealt with between swiss parents, or people residing in Switzerland.
In switzerland, as an unmarried mother, you have automatically the sole custody of your child,however the childs father can contest that and apply for joined custody.
If the father has accepted the child ( kind annerkennung) officially at the guardianship office ( vormundschaftsbehörde) a so called maintenance contract ( unterhaltsvertrag) wil be drawn up where not only the maintenance he pays towards the childs upbringing cost is put down in legally binding writing,but also the access to the child is written down in this document.
This document is is legallly binding,and if for example you go to Ireland and take the child with you,thus preventing the father from seeing his child,he can sue you for violation of his rights.
I have been and unmarried mum ,and the most important thing i learnt was to swallow my pride, the child hasn't asked to be born nor to be a instrument of who has THE POWER over the other party,ever.
The child is ALWAYS the innocent party in these disputes.
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