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Does your Krankenkasse help finance your stay in a retirement home?

I am just looking forward a couple decades.. in the best case each of us will end up in an old folk's home here in good old Switzerland (if we choose to stay here), and I know they are ridiculously expensive, starting at 6K a month for no special care, and the sky is the limit. I know if you are a citizen your local village will cover your costs, but only after you've burned through your entire net worth first. Question: does anyone know if your private health insurance will cover at least some of the costs of long-term care? Or should I visit Dignitas at that stage so at least the kids inherit something.
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Re: Does your Krankenkasse help finance your stay in a retirement home?

This Beobachter article, "Who pays for care in old age?", might be of interest (German):

https://www.beobachter.ch/geld/versi...flege-im-alter
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Re: Does your Krankenkasse help finance your stay in a retirement home?

EXIT, which is limited to legal Swiss residents, is a much better deal than dignitas. And much less in the public eye. My wife and I have been EXIT members for a few years now.
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Old 14.08.2019, 08:10
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EXIT, which is limited to legal Swiss residents, is a much better deal than dignitas. And much less in the public eye. My wife and I have been EXIT members for a few years now.
Whats EXIT go to do with this conversation!?
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Old 14.08.2019, 08:11
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I am just looking forward a couple decades.. in the best case each of us will end up in an old folk's home here in good old Switzerland (if we choose to stay here), and I know they are ridiculously expensive, starting at 6K a month for no special care, and the sky is the limit. I know if you are a citizen your local village will cover your costs, but only after you've burned through your entire net worth first. Question: does anyone know if your private health insurance will cover at least some of the costs of long-term care? Or should I visit Dignitas at that stage so at least the kids inherit something.
That should read " in the worst case"?
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Whats EXIT go to do with this conversation!?
Just read the first post till the end for once.
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Old 14.08.2019, 09:37
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Re: Does your Krankenkasse help finance your stay in a retirement home?

One approach is to slowly give away your wealth to your inheritors while you are still alive, and to keep as much as you deem a decent amount for such care for yourself (that's what I would do). This, I suppose, works well if there are no family feuds.

Check with your canton to see the rules and limitations - i.e. the max you can give away in a set period of time without incurring penalties.
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Or should I visit Dignitas at that stage so at least the kids inherit something.
Let the little buggers sort themselves out. You have brought them up and given them an education after that it’s up to them, I don’t see any reason why an old couple should go without in old age in order to pass on an inheritance. The bank and hotel of mum and dad should have stopped long ago.

And no health insurance does not cover the costs of a retirement home, they cover health issues as they do for everyone else. They’d go to the wall very quickly if they had to start paying out say 6k a month per person for 20 years or so.
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Old 14.08.2019, 11:25
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Let the little buggers sort themselves out. You have brought them up and given them an education after that it’s up to them, I don’t see any reason why an old couple should go without in old age in order to pass on an inheritance. The bank and hotel of mum and dad should have stopped long ago.

And no health insurance does not cover the costs of a retirement home, they cover health issues as they do for everyone else. They’d go to the wall very quickly if they had to start paying out say 6k a month per person for 20 years or so.
basically, this.

If you run out of money, you won't be sleeping under a bridge of course. Social support will kick in before that happens. But it may mean you're no longer in the retirement home of your choice. You may instead end up in some bottom of the barrel place.

If that's not where you want to spend the last years of your life, make sure you have the means to pay for better.
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Old 14.08.2019, 11:29
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They’d go to the wall very quickly if they had to start paying out say 6k a month per person for 20 years or so.

iirc the average stay is only 18 month
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... But it may mean you're no longer in the retirement home of your choice. You may instead end up in some bottom of the barrel place.

If that's not where you want to spend the last years of your life, make sure you have the means to pay for better.
...or Thailand. Wasn't there a piece of news a while back about shipping the retirees off to a cheaper place?
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Re: Does your Krankenkasse help finance your stay in a retirement home?

Why go to a retirement home rather than live at home?

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Thats is what my mother has done for the last 6, she has 24/7 care at home in London.
A care home is way cheaper when you consider London living wage is £10.55 an hour x 24 x 365 £92,418 then you need to add the cost of running a house. Wheel chair lift was £12,000 2 years ago.
She is 90 & not had a cold in 5 years.
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Let the little buggers sort themselves out. You have brought them up and given them an education after that it’s up to them, I don’t see any reason why an old couple should go without in old age in order to pass on an inheritance.
Amen!

The peace of mind knowing that 'the old folks' are secure in their last years is a far better gift to give the young'uns.

Make your plans, let the kids know what your wishes are, be as open with them about your financial plan for your old age as is reasonable or comfortable. If they know they don't have to worry about you then you have given them the freedom to follow their own paths and dreams.

You might consider a middle step before the Altersheim: Look into what care you might be able to hire to allow you to stay in your home. Small accessibility and security changes to the house, hiring help for certain tasks, can buy you years, even decades of staying in your own home. Often one does not need full nursing care, but rather help with a few things and a watchful eye. Level of need dependent, that can often be had at less cost than the Altersheim. And certainly for me that would be a more pleasant option.

(As FMF says, though, private 24/7 care will cost a small fortune. Maybe not so small either.)

Some of my friends and I joke about doing the 'Golden Girls' thing together one day, when the time comes, in one country or another. It actually might be a good idea - 'Senior WGs' where friends or even unrelated seniors share housing, daily tasks, resources, provide each other with companionship and care, are becoming a thing in Switzerland. I've read articles where the group even hires a sort of nurse/manager to watch over the group.

Something to think about.

But yeah - planning for the latter years is a topic we all need to explore, unpleasant as thinking about the end can be. We can't stick our heads in the sand and just hope for the best, leaving others to pick up the pieces.

(I speak from experience.)
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Why go to a retirement home rather than live at home?

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Aging in place is what it‘s called in the US. If you have the support and the means, it‘s a good option for many.
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I always assumed that nobody voluntarily gives up the comfort of their own home to go and live in a single room in a place full of old phobies, where you are told by nurse when to go to sleep, when to get up and what and when to eat.

People who do that don't have a choice. They have reached the point that they cannot look after themselves adequately.
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iirc the average stay is only 18 month
My neighbor has been in one now for over 10 years. He has great difficulty to walk and they have no family. Their house was sold this spring and the wife now lives in rented accommodation.
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I always assumed that nobody voluntarily gives up the comfort of their own home to go and live in a single room in a place full of old phobies, where you are told by nurse when to go to sleep, when to get up and what and when to eat.

People who do that don't have a choice. They have reached the point that they cannot look after themselves adequately.
The old peoples home near us has a canteen which serves food in a two hour window at lunchtime at least (not sure what they do in the evening - I've never been). I know that because it is open to the public and you can get a lunch there. The food's not too bad, either.

I think it's just a stereotypical view of the way old folks' homes used to be years ago with slop served up at mealtimes and stern matrons ordering everyone around. Seems to be a cushy number here, and as far as I know, it doesn't seem to have "inmates" who are from a super-rich background, either.

They also offer membership to and classes in the fitness centre, and it's not restricted to people of a retirement age, either.

I guess they skim off some of the profits from the public-facing facilities to subsidise the place.
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Well I don’t know anyone who did it by choice! I’d say it comes down to a situation where there is no other choice usually due to health reasons.
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