I've Googled this for ages and can't find anything that I'm looking for so I'm asking the wise folk of EF to see if they can help me.
My ex (father of my daughter) has had a lot of problems with dislocations of his shoulder. He had an operation around 8 weeks ago to pin it together to hopefully prevent future occurences. He has now developed two hernia's, one in his neck and the other between his neck and shoulder blades. They are going to operate on Monday.
Can someone please help me answer these questions:
* Is it likely to be linked to the surgery that caused them? if not how do these things happen?
* What does the operation involve?
* How long is he likely to stay in hospital?
* What is the recovery period after?
* When can he start lifting anything heavyish?
The reason I need to know this is because I can't get any info from him (even when he is well, getting info from him is like trying to get blood from a stone) and I want to have an idea of how it will affect visits to his daughter i.e. when I can expect them to start again and when he will be able to have her alone without my supervision.
By the way, I would take her to him but he doesn't want her there.
Thanks everyone