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what type of flowers for apologize?

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I'm not sure where should this topic belong. Hope it's the right place.

I would like to send some flower to apologize and didn't know what kind of flower suitable. Any tips?

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Re: what type of flowers for apologize?

The Freesia symbolizes innocence and thoughtfulness. By giving this to the person you're at odds with, you're giving them the signal that you're willing to make up for what you did. Freesias come in all sorts of shapes and colors. A bouquet of different-colored Freesias would definitely melt hearts. If you really want to appear sincere, you should buy the white ones.
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The Freesia symbolizes innocence and thoughtfulness. By giving this to the person you're at odds with, you're giving them the signal that you're willing to make up for what you did. Freesias come in all sorts of shapes and colors. A bouquet of different-colored Freesias would definitely melt hearts. If you really want to appear sincere, you should buy the white ones.
Thank you for the tip.
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Re: what type of flowers for apologize?

I think it very much depends on your relationship to the person you want to send the flowers to.

Red roses from a husband to a wife would be appropriate and do the trick. ( I speak from experience here. ) But to a friend, not.
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I think it very much depends on your relationship to the person you want to send the flowers to.

Red roses from a husband to a wife would be appropriate and do the trick. ( I speak from experience here. ) But to a friend, not.
It's for my partner. I said something really bad and awful and behaved like a monster. Hurt his feeling badly. I really want to let him i'm regret.

Thanks.

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It's for my partner. I said something really bad and awful and behaved like a monster. Hurt his feeling badly. I really want to let him i'm regret.

Thanks.

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Forget the flowers. Plan a nice meal, bottle of wine.
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Re: what type of flowers for apologize?

I find nothing conveys the message of I'm sorry like a good blowjo ... errr... roses..... good bouquet of roses.
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It's for my partner. I said something really bad and awful and behaved like a monster. Hurt his feeling badly. I really want to let him i'm regret.

Thanks.

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I am not sure a guy will appreciate flowers. At least the guys i know wont. How about a really nice home made gourmet meal?

But good luck and let us know how it goes
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Old 17.01.2011, 10:37
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It's for my partner. I said something really bad and awful and behaved like a monster. Hurt his feeling badly. I really want to let him i'm regret.

Thanks.

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Flowers?



Either you have a rare male partner who likes flowers, or you are trolling.
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Re: what type of flowers for apologize?

Any bouquet of flowers will do as long as something expensive is hidden inside But all seriousness, a nice home cooked meal will do wonders.
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Re: what type of flowers for apologize?

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I think a special cooked meal (if your cooking skills are up to it) will usually go further with guys than flowers though - unless he's into flowers anyhow - but maybe some sorts of plants could be good as well.

However, no reason you can't put together a nice arrangement (with the help of a florist as some of your choices may be tough to get "just anyplace") to place on the dining table or in your living room. Even if guys may not appreciate them for being flowers, usually they still do appreciate something nice looking in the room and flower arrangements can bring a comfortable feel to the room (and perhaps smell nice too).
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It's for my partner. I said something really bad and awful and behaved like a monster. Hurt his feeling badly. I really want to let him i'm regret.

Thanks.

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How about just a card, with your sincere thoughts in there? And add in self made "vouchers" for him to redeem special favours over time.
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Re: what type of flowers for apologize?

getting a man flowers would be like buying a woman a set of screw drivers
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getting a man flowers would be like buying a woman a set of screw drivers
True enough...

Not every man would want screwdrivers though and not every woman would scoff at them. (I need a set as well as a set of allen keys, so if anyone feels a need to apologize to me for anything, you know what to get )
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Thank you for all the helpful tips.
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Flowers, cards, fairy dust....... whatever..... none of that stuff works with a man.


You are just going to have to flat out swallow your pride, and sincerely beg for forgiveness.

Even if he's upset with you, eating a nice meal will be the last thing on his mind.

when he is convinced that you are truely sorry and accepts your appology, THEN consider the food thing.

after dinner...... you know what to do next
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Re: what type of flowers for apologize?

You know your partner, and the situation. Fantastic home-cooked meal is a good idea but only if you consider it likely that he'll be home at the usual time. What if you fix it and he works late / goes down the pub to vent some frustration / goes back to stay at his mother's for a few days? You're sitting there alone trying to keep the dinner warm for hours and only getting frustrated with him all over again. Not a good start.

If you think something needs to be said now, before he gets home - then send flowers to his office. Or cookies. Or a balloon. Anything. He might not appreciate it in the same way you would, but he will notice the gesture and it will set the tone for when he gets home.

(If you do this, for goodness' sake write a card to go with it and spell out what you're thinking; whatever you do, don't yield to the romantic notion of 'saying it with freesias.' He probably doesn't speak freesiaspeak or even recognize it as a language. In my experience guys tend to perceive the floral world as divided into "roses" / "not-roses" / "what-are-they-called-those-weird-purple-ones-oh-yeah-orchids".)

Otherwise, wait and tell him yourself. So much easier - and more healing - to tell him in person and not worry about finding the exact words. Cook him a nice dinner, sure, but don't let that be a substitute for your own voice either.

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Even if he's upset with you, eating a nice meal will be the last thing on his mind.

after dinner...... you know what to do next

You men are all the same!! Always thinking with that small head of yours
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I find nothing conveys the message of I'm sorry like a good blowjo ... errr... roses..... good bouquet of roses.
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