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Re: Why do women always fall for game playing men?

Begga btw- does your avatar perhaps the 'wrong' idea? I have no objections - but just wondering if it is the lifestyle you want to portray, eg that you don't mind sharing.
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Old 12.04.2011, 18:22
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Re: Why do women always fall for game playing men?

People can only do to you, what you allow them to do.
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Old 12.04.2011, 19:20
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Re: Why do women always fall for game playing men?

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Begga btw- does your avatar perhaps the 'wrong' idea? I have no objections - but just wondering if it is the lifestyle you want to portray, eg that you don't mind sharing.
What, really?
I defo don't share, but this guy is definitely not on EF so it shouldn't matter for that sakes. But better change then?
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Old 12.04.2011, 19:22
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What, really?
I defo don't share, but this guy is definitely not on EF so it shouldn't matter for that sakes. But better change then?
unless you want people to think you support teenage orgies....


No, seriously i don't see anything wrong with it.
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Old 12.04.2011, 19:50
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Re: Why do women always fall for game playing men?

I liked the blond one from Asterix, it suits you

Begga, you're both lovely and young. The guy didn't call then forget him. There are many nice young men who would be happy to meet a kind, pretty, caring girl like you.

Don't waste any time or thoughts you're young now.
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Old 12.04.2011, 20:03
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Re: Why do women always fall for game playing men?

@ begga. just ask him 'you wanna ?' if he says no, you have your answer right there. otherwise you can bait and switch ('i knew it! men all have one track minds...')
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I liked the blond one from Asterix, it suits you

Begga, you're both lovely and young. The guy didn't call then forget him. There are many nice young men who would be happy to meet a kind, pretty, caring girl like you.

Don't waste any time or thoughts you're young now.
Sky, I really wish you were a guy sometimes
Thank you!
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Old 12.04.2011, 20:27
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Is the collective you the reason why women go to the toilet together??
Naw, we debate there over whether to sit or stand peeing.

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I did!
Ca week after the 2nd date i made rather spontaneous offer for lunch, and ended up joining him and his colleagues....
So you invite him for lunch or throw a hint and he says "that's great, you can join my work team lunching"? I am sorry hon. No. He sounds like he doesn't know how to very nicely and politely refuse. Maybe wrong timing? Playing for the other team?

As per stereotypes, people who use them the most are usually afraid of being hurt, or being hurt again, and use them as protection. Or schemers. I don't know where they get the nerves and patience. As lame and incorrect it is, and they hurting in fact the person who lives by them, we all stereotype to certain degree, and play games, either knowingly or not.

I agree silliness and stereotypes in dating are actually gender immune. A lot of people who publicly refuse all the flakiness might have participated in this before they found "the one"..Memory is so short. Just remember how we bashed poor Swiss chicks here, and so many people participated. Actually, thinking about games, 99% of people I know who get off by intrigues, are chicks.

I wonder if is it coming from ex Soviet place, I never trusted any publicly proclaimed self assessments.
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Sky, I really wish you were a guy sometimes
Thank you!
Thank you !!
Mr Sky..... he's kinda happy I'm not
(and he's been putting up with my fussing for 17 years)

How about an ol' latina grandma instead ?
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Re: Why do women always fall for game playing men?

So at the end of a beautiful day, i spent a few hours with my beautiful sauna-friends. These are the ones that you only ever see in the sauna, and wouldn't recognise if dressed.
Am also slightly tidily as the proprietor was feeding me champaign in honour of the day. What is a girl to do?

Begga, after all this talk of some silly idiot, i feel a girls night out coming on - if nothing else, we can use the royal wedding as an opportunity to tell the world that this b*tch dont take no sh*t!
Or at least as a warm up to the real thing

Also, please check out this link i found this evening. It actually refers to a book that i am currently reading, but this "hot - cold" personality might refer to your friend. That, or narcissism on his part.

And 2 really big words that might apply to the women/men who always go after people who treat them badly: cognitive dissonance.

(note to self - if you are to drunk to type correctly on the 3rd attempt, dont post to ef..)
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Re: Why do women always fall for game playing men?

Everyone gets the partner they deserve. Trash attracts trash and good attracts good. If you think that you don't deserve better then you will always go out with trash. It's all to do with self worth.

Use Swiss bin bags and get rid of all the trash from your life.
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Old 13.04.2011, 10:23
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Begga, after all this talk of some silly idiot, i feel a girls night out coming on - if nothing else, we can use the royal wedding as an opportunity to tell the world that this b*tch dont take no sh*t!
Or at least as a warm up to the real thing
Thank you ma'am, sounds good to me and looking forward to meet you. (Although I've probably forgotten about him already by then.)
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Old 13.04.2011, 16:44
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Re: Why do women always fall for game playing men?

Regardless of the gender, people want to share and to give and to be cared for in return. I believe that individuals have various levels of sensitivity and what may seem comfortable for one could be overkill or not enough for another.

In any kind of relationship, the chemistry happens when both have the same levels or are willing to adjust to the other's criteria.
Imbalance (perceived as and can be true indifference) happens when one gives more, or one expects more than the other.

Basically, if what one gives has no value in the eyes of the other, then it certainly should not have a price attached either, or any expectations.

Emotional maturity is to understand this, and to simply walk away.
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Regardless of the gender, people want to share and to give and to be cared for in return. I believe that individuals have various levels of sensitivity and what may seem comfortable for one could be overkill or not enough for another.

Imbalance (perceived as and can be true indifference) happens when one gives more, or one expects more than the other.

Emotional maturity is to understand this, and to simply walk away.
So true.

(This message was too short, but I think this blah blah sentence should amend that.)
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