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Old 10.03.2010, 18:55
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You sound like a man who has built up that experience.

What are your views on how open swiss girls are to casual sex and casual relationships?
Ok, sounds like a serious question?

Very difficult to answer, as there is no "yes, they are very open to it" and "no, not all", simply there is no general answer to this.

So many factors are playing a role, but if chemistry is there and time is right for both, then anything is possible, that's for sure.
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Old 10.03.2010, 19:06
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In the UK/Ireland you'd often have girls come up to chat with you even if they had no sexual intentions. Here if you chat up a man/woman in a pub/club it automatically means you wanna take the person home.

That's my take on it at least
I would say that it is exactly the opposite. In the UK, as soon as you start talking to a female; everyone assumes you are making a move on them. In Switzerland (Ticino certainly) you can go to a bar and just have a social chat with anyone and there is no assumption there is a motive for a relationship or hanky-panky.
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Re: Swiss girls - more reserved than other nationalities?

Swiss women like quality in all things. Which means that one night stands are generally perceived as being a complete waste of time and not worth the aforementioned potential reputation damage. For the discerning fun-loving female, a collection of "playfriends" is the way to go.

Instead of risking a disappointing night with someone that might not want to leave in the morning or asks you to stay for breakfast, you audit and retain a selection of gentlemen who are happy to turn up when you call / pre-arrange to meet at some point fitting both parties' schedules.

Since most men are pretty thrilled to have such an arrangement without having to spend Sundays with prospective parents-in-law or seeing you with laundry day knickers, they put in a lot of effort, the wining, the dining, the... you get the picture. Be careful not to confuse this with wanting more, as it will turn out very messy indeed. Don't treat them like your soul mate and save that hilarious story about how you set fire to the Christmas Tree one year for your mates or your brother's wedding dinner. Be fabulous, take what you want - except prisoners.

I really hope my mum isn't reading this...
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Old 10.03.2010, 19:35
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Swiss women like quality in all things. Which means that one night stands are generally perceived as being a complete waste of time and not worth the aforementioned potential reputation damage. For the discerning fun-loving female, a collection of "playfriends" is the way to go.

Instead of risking a disappointing night with someone that might not want to leave in the morning or asks you to stay for breakfast, you audit and retain a selection of gentlemen who are happy to turn up when you call / pre-arrange to meet at some point fitting both parties' schedules.

Since most men are pretty thrilled to have such an arrangement without having to spend Sundays with prospective parents-in-law or seeing you with laundry day knickers, they put in a lot of effort, the wining, the dining, the... you get the picture. Be careful not to confuse this with wanting more, as it will turn out very messy indeed. Don't treat them like your soul mate and save that hilarious story about how you set fire to the Christmas Tree one year for your mates or your brother's wedding dinner. Be fabulous, take what you want - except prisoners.

I really hope my mum isn't reading this...

If that is really true; then Swiss girls would suit my requirements/needs exactly.
It is usually trying to pretend you are serious about them in the morning and were not taking advantage of them that is the problem.
I really thought that Swiss girls were a bit reserved (to say the least) but I shall look at them and handle them in a totally different way from now on.
Expect legal action from my lawyer for misrepresentation if your statement is incorrect and I suffer as a result.
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Old 10.03.2010, 19:45
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If that is really true; then Swiss girls would suit my requirements/needs exactly.
It is usually trying to pretend you are serious about them in the morning and were not taking advantage of them that is the problem.
I really thought that Swiss girls were a bit reserved (to say the least) but I shall look at them and handle them in a totally different way from now on.
Expect legal action from my lawyer for misrepresentation if your statement is incorrect and I suffer as a result.
I'm 50% British blood, so you can only sue for half the statement. The sad truth is that most of my friends who have this attitude are getting married or are in serious relationships. It seems that men are utterly fascinated by someone who DOESN'T cling to a guy for dear life and is not afraid to say what she wants.
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Old 10.03.2010, 20:41
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Re: Swiss girls - more reserved than other nationalities?

Useful, practical information on how to get along with the natives.
What a great forum.
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Old 10.03.2010, 21:14
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I'm 50% British blood, so you can only sue for half the statement. The sad truth is that most of my friends who have this attitude are getting married or are in serious relationships. It seems that men are utterly fascinated by someone who DOESN'T cling to a guy for dear life and is not afraid to say what she wants.

Well, interesting statement, but I am having a hard time believe this and hope that this is not true........definitely not common behaviour by Swiss girls, having a collection of playfriends, that is.

But hey, each to his/her own.......

So, back to football........
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Re: Swiss girls - more reserved than other nationalities?

I think the Swiss as a nation are a little reserved at first but I now have some good friends here and a rather decent wife.
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Old 11.03.2010, 05:04
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I would brand the words "casual" and "serious" as being quite far apart from each other... but depending on how you see it, being in a serious relationship can result in lots and lots of casual sex... so ummm, yeah
Shini! you know what i meant to ask, right?, thanks anyway
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No Sex please we are British! yeah right!

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Old 11.03.2010, 09:03
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maybe depends on who's doing the 'warming up'
I cannot agree more !
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Old 11.03.2010, 09:09
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However I think this may be due in part to Swiss men... I hear on the grapevine that the bedroom is not their strongest point.
That's right, something we try to compensate with humour...... wait... ...damn.
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Old 11.03.2010, 09:10
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It seems that men are utterly fascinated by someone who DOESN'T cling to a guy for dear life and is not afraid to say what she wants.
Bingo! That would win me over in a jiff
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Old 11.03.2010, 09:22
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If that is really true; then Swiss girls would suit my requirements/needs exactly.
It is usually trying to pretend you are serious about them in the morning and were not taking advantage of them that is the problem.
I really thought that Swiss girls were a bit reserved (to say the least) but I shall look at them and handle them in a totally different way from now on.
Expect legal action from my lawyer for misrepresentation if your statement is incorrect and I suffer as a result.
Bear in mind that what Kittster is talking about is typical for Zürichs party girls, not necessarily what the rest of the countries' girls are like. But she's spot on with her analysis of course.
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If that is really true; then Swiss girls would suit my requirements/needs exactly.
It is usually trying to pretend you are serious about them in the morning and were not taking advantage of them that is the problem.
I really thought that Swiss girls were a bit reserved (to say the least) but I shall look at them and handle them in a totally different way from now on.
Expect legal action from my lawyer for misrepresentation if your statement is incorrect and I suffer as a result.
I think the only women that would suit your needs would be robotic, life-like Androids programmed only to screw and tell you on a daily basis how great you are in every respect.
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Old 11.03.2010, 09:31
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That's right, something we try to compensate with humour...... wait... ...damn.
shall i post that alphorn photo again, schatz?
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Re: Swiss girls - more reserved than other nationalities?

The tight jeans they wear, gives them a few orgasms just by walking, no wonder they can be so reserved
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Old 11.03.2010, 10:32
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Re: Swiss girls - more reserved than other nationalities?

Daydreaming again Derv ?
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I think the only women that would suit your needs would be robotic, life-like Androids programmed only to screw and tell you on a daily basis how great you are in every respect.
I didn't say I wanted a wife and their program seems to crash out.
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The tight jeans they wear, gives me a few orgasms just by walking, no wonder I can't be so reserved
fixed that for yer perv...i mean derv...
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