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Okay, this is like the umpteenth thread in the past 6 months about people finding it difficult to meet someone for dating purposes. Yet those people can never be bothered to come to any of our social events. Are they looking for people in the grocery stores, or maybe at the RAV office, like they've been told to in Cosmo?
My short experience is that EF meetings are the biggest sausage parties this side of Berlin! That's not a bad thing; I'll still be down to the next social for what it is- good conversation and a good laugh with English-speaking people.
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Old 04.01.2010, 22:54
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My short experience is that EF meetings are the biggest sausage parties this side of Berlin!
Because, as I said, the women who constantly post here complaining they can't meet men don't leave the house. They're too busy PMing DB, begging for a date.
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Old 04.01.2010, 22:57
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Are they looking for people in the grocery stores, or maybe at the RAV office, like they've been told to in Cosmo?
Yea, stalking the frozen food section aisle as apparently according to Cosmo, single men are in abundance there...
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Old 04.01.2010, 23:29
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It seems that of women born between 1960-64 (one group they have stats for), 24% do not have children. This is up from only 15% of the group born in the 1950's (sorry can't remember the exact years).

But interestingly, the 24% not having children jumps to 40% of university educated women !!

Priorities, choices etc. Who knows.
I make an educated guess: The birthrate slumped due to the invention of the pill which was introduced in the late sixties and was only widely accepted in the 70s. I guess that especially the girls enjoying university finally had a very effective tool to plan if and if yes when to get kids....
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Old 04.01.2010, 23:37
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Yea, stalking the frozen food section aisle as apparently according to Cosmo, single men are in abundance there...
In North America, yes: where such aisles are substantial in size and where grocery stores are open late, which is when the male of the species can be found at such aisles.
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Old 05.01.2010, 00:04
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I make an educated guess: The birthrate slumped due to the invention of the pill which was introduced in the late sixties and was only widely accepted in the 70s. I guess that especially the girls enjoying university finally had a very effective tool to plan if and if yes when to get kids....
What you talking about ,the pill(aspirin) are here for a long time "Not tonight honey I have a headache"
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Hello Paulita,I want to say you have done a great thing by writting out how your friend feel about their daily,lonely and private life,but i most confess it happen to almost everybody every day, the most problem is that we are always shy to talk to people or even share our feeling to people who can really get to be there for us ,not only your friend,including me,i have been looking for someone i can chat with or talk with or go out with some time,well i am available to feel the vacuum,and i will like to meet your friends,.Wesley

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Its too early, when you still have your own ego and teenage fantasies unfulfilled and havent got rid of the demons of past life's depravations. "Your kid cant have a bicycle just coz your dad never bought you a bicycle"

Its too late when you cant play with them for hours or stay up with them all nite when they need you to.

Age is just a number but people dont change or improve as they grow older, they just get more refined and sophisticated in their stupid ways, if they are so inclined.
Oh Okay I can agree with that.
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Old 05.01.2010, 00:13
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Hello Paulita,I want to say you have done a great thing by writting out how your friend feel about their daily,lonely and private life,but i most confess it happen to almost everybody every day, the most problem is that we are always shy to talk to people or even share our feeling to people who can really get to be there for us ,not only your friend,including me,i have been looking for someone i can chat with or talk with or go out with some time,well i am available to feel the vacuum,and i will like to meet your friends,.Wesley
I am so happy there will be a happy ending
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Old 05.01.2010, 00:14
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Hello Paulita,I want to say you have done a great thing by writting out how your friend feel about their daily,lonely and private life,but i most confess it happen to almost everybody every day, the most problem is that we are always shy to talk to people or even share our feeling to people who can really get to be there for us ,not only your friend,including me,i have been looking for someone i can chat with or talk with or go out with some time,well i am available to feel the vacuum,and i will like to meet your friends,.Wesley

That's so kind of you wesley - are you offering to take all 3 out together or one at a time?
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Old 05.01.2010, 00:26
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That's so kind of you wesley - are you offering to take all 3 out together or one at a time?
I read that as weasly .
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Old 05.01.2010, 00:36
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I read that as weasly .
In Canada its weasel !

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weasel

Short legged predator
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Here are a few tips on how to be successful on the Zurich dating scene:

Dress down - adapt a boring style (trousers, t-shirt, flat shoes, nothing quirky)
Do not say anything vaguely interesting that might make you look clever (Swiss men don't like smart women)
Do not make any witty or sarcastic remarks you are in acute danger of hurting someone's feelings (important!)
Do not expect to be picked up in a limousine when going on a date - Swiss men like to 'travel' by bike (even in their 40ies)
Expect to be invited for dinner which is completely made out of Migros Budget products (less expensive, after all we are in a recession here)

To sum it all up be less demanding!

Most importantly (!!) do not mention the fact that you are Eastern European you might be mistaken for an Exotic dancer and therefore not be considered as a potential date. Even if you work in Banking no one will believe you that! No one!

I rest my case.

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Old 05.01.2010, 01:20
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Re: Why is it so hard to find a date in Zurich?! (hope my friends wont kill me)

The OPs friends probably need to look at what attracts them, their dating expectations and what they're prepared to compromise on with their dates.

Changing these 3 elements will change their dating outcomes.

So it's not hard to find a date, it's hard to accept the ones that are here.

Outcomes (incl. dating ones) won't change until you change something.

As an allegory, I'm sure the OP's "professionals" would change as needed when it came to professional concerns....why not the same for personal concerns?

After all goals are goals whether spiritual, professional, personal, physical....right?
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Here are a few tips on how to be successful on the Zurich dating scene:

Dress down - adapt a boring style (trousers, t-shirt flat shoes, nothing quirky)
Do not say anything vaguely interesting that might make you look clever (Swiss men don't like smart women)
Do not make any witty or sarcastic remarks you are in acute danger of hurting someone's feelings (important!)
Do not except to be picked up in a limousine when going on a date -
Swiss men like to 'travel' by bike (even in their 40ies)
Except to be invited for dinner which is completely made out of Migros Budget products (less expensive, after all we are in a recession here)

Most importantly (!!) do not mention the fact that you are Eastern European you might be mistaken for an Exotic dancer and therefore not be considered as a potential date. Even if you work in Banking no one will believe you that! No one!

I rest my case.
100% agree! esepcially on the dress down... no joke etc. Swiss men are (most of them) just very boring, or use their own word, they are " family oriented" ? :0

Dont worry for being Eastern European, although most men may have fantasies on Russian blondies, Ukrain dancers etc, they still own high respects to Easterners! ( a lot of them working in banks, and they all have good husbands )
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i am available to feel the vacuum
wesley control yourself. Or at least buy them dinner first.
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Re: Why is it so hard to find a date in Zurich?! (hope my friends wont kill me)

why not start a dating section here at english forum?
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why not start a dating section here at english forum?
This is EF, not an online dating site! Please do not do this .
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why not start a dating section here at english forum?
If you want to meet people go to the social events, it really is that simple.
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Here are a few tips on how to be successful on the Zurich dating scene:

Dress down - adapt a boring style (trousers, t-shirt flat shoes, nothing quirky)
Do not say anything vaguely interesting that might make you look clever (Swiss men don't like smart women)
Do not make any witty or sarcastic remarks you are in acute danger of hurting someone's feelings (important!)
Do not except to be picked up in a limousine when going on a date -
Swiss men like to 'travel' by bike (even in their 40ies)
Except to be invited for dinner which is completely made out of Migros Budget products (less expensive, after all we are in a recession here)

To sum it all up be less demanding!

Most importantly (!!) do not mention the fact that you are Eastern European you might be mistaken for an Exotic dancer and therefore not be considered as a potential date. Even if you work in Banking no one will believe you that! No one!

I rest my case.
Aaaawwww...

Anyways.

Why do you, people, keep mentioning Cosmo? Somebody reads that stuff?
Jeezumpetes, I am so out of the loop..

Hash, I would use the term "fair" rather than pasty. Haha...Let's boycott "professional" and "pasty". Any others?

And I really didn't get the connection between mtb and unfaithful men. But I am having a slow day today.
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