thanks Paddy...it's been nice knowin' ya' mate.


EDIT... in case I get banned, and / or don't make it back from Liverbirds flat.

Aye, let's keep in touch.

Would the actual complaint against the visiting friend have a bearing here?

i.e. if it's just a hissy fit with no real objection the attempt to ban the other person wouldn't be justified. On the other hand, if the other girl had done something really bad, just below the level at which you'd go to the police . . .maybe it's justified?

Obviously the best answer is always to talk these things through.

Where are we meeting? Do you want to handle the photos or the video?

I don't speak German at all, so with the help of Google Translate.. whatever the ex. did sounds pretty bad

GoogleTranslate : Your behavior is bad and hurtful. You've become a woman who knows neither honor, ethics or morality.

She did absolutely nothing wrong apart from me leaving 2 dirty cups in the sink for 5 or 10 minutes. Which incidentally also prompted another threatening e-mail from my housemate. Not to me of course, but to my friend

Sounds like my kind of woman

Paddy, I am sorry but this joke has just gone on too long, and this is a serious matter, please try to control yourself accordingly.

(and high def. video please )

Not necessarily ... a woman scorned can come out with a lot worse stuff than this, often with very little justification. (I am not speaking from experience, of course ...)

................makes ya wonder what was in the cups ( trying to erase my own memory )

three girls two cups.

She's not talking about 'one cup'.

That would be 2 girls, 2 cups...


Edit: bah, way too late and not nearly as funny

this thread has just taken on a whole new ( horrible ) dimension.

Shouldn't we merge it with the lavatory thread then?

Just having sat down to eat lunch and see what's on the forum...I get good news...my New Years's diet starts two weeks early.

Anyway, sorry to spoil your fun boys, but back on topic.....

Housemate has now sent my friend 3 e-mails and 5 sms on this matter. Anyone of the article numbers I should quote for Stalking and Harassment?

Sorry .
Will be vewy, vewy good.

Anyway, can't you throw this back at her? Tell her to stop harassing your friend, or you'll go to the police (or your friend should). Seems as if you're resigned to leaving anyway, so it won't be burning any bridges.

I still sthink they should simply calm down, sit together and talk it through over a nice cup or two...

Yes, but I don't want her to think she's been victorious. I'm a woman and therefore must have the last word. Hmmm but then again so is she