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Old 16.01.2018, 12:58
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<<clear non-verbal cues>> what's wrong with verbal enunciation?

How many times a night do I <<chill over here on the couch>> - on his couch in his appartment if I don't feel comfortable with the guy?

<<He sat back and pointed to his penis and motioned for me to go down on him. And I did>> huh?

Am I the weirdo here?
These kind of stories are mockery of real sexual assaults and abuse.
I'm starting to get angry about this. Maybe I should pull out of the thread as my understanding of the real problem - which exists throughout the world - is a completly different one.
I've met victims - several - this one is not a victim.

Oh and <<We are not using her real name to protect her identity because she is not a public figure>>. Goodie. But him we give a good whipping, he's a public figure, much more to ruin in his life. For a person who is not into verbal communication she talked a lot afterwards.
No matter though, I don't even have to doubt a single word of what she said (and I don't) to come to my conclusion above.


I agree, he seems pretty desparate in this story LOL.
But how long would you make a clumsy 18 year old make a fool of himself before you walk? And would you really present yourself as a victim after?

Before anybody sends the red pebbles secretly through the ether, are you sure you don't see my point?
I have no idea if any of this is true (altho Aziz didn't say anything here was untrue), but the way the article was so well written, it made me look at it from both (his and her) perspectives.

From her perspective, she obviously likes this guy, who is rich/famous, she's read his books, seen his comedy, etc. sent some texts with him, and feels like she knows him a little, knows he's pro-feminist, etc. and she thinks he's "one of the good guys". But then when they are alone, he turns into a hornball on a mission to get in her pants, which threw her off guard. As for verbal clues, she did tell him to "slow down", and was physically moving away from him when he made advances. I can sense her dilema and being confused of liking him, but wanting to slow the agressive advances she isn't ready for.

And to put myself in Aziz's shoes in the story, I can understand being horny and wanting to get laid, but any guy can pick up on the messages a girl is sending that she isn't into it, and apparently he did breifly, as he suggested to "chill" instead...before quickly resuming his assault. He didn't physically grab her head and stick his penis in her mouth, but he did continue to pressure her after she said and signaled that she wasn't ready. That's not a crime, and she did agree, but again, putting myself in his shoes, this isn't something that as a guy I would feel comfortable doing myself, I would respect her wishes and just "chill". And considering how Aziz promotes himself as pro-feminist, wearing #MeToo pins, etc. and then pressures women into blowing him on a first date, yea, there is a good dose of hypocracy there ...altho to be fair he did go down on her also, so maybe his pro-feminist name is good afterall

Anyway, if the story is true or not really doesn't matter much to me, and people will have their own opinions, I just found the story itself to be very interesting.
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Old 16.01.2018, 12:59
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Doesn't change the sentiment that he sounds like a bit of a sad and desperate loser, though.
To be fair I think 90% of guys could be considered sad and desperate losers :P


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Old 17.01.2018, 13:39
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To be fair I think 90% of guys could be considered sad and desperate losers :P


Source: Am a guy.
To be fair...I am not saying Aziz is not responsible, he sounds as lame as one can get from that girl's report. But it makes me feel uncomfortable imagining that there is only one message this story gives to innocent fans. I hope they can also get more careful. What is the point of stardom if one's physical and mental integrity gets violated. I might be old school but just getting in a car with somebody I don't know gives me heebee jeebees.
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To be fair I think 90% of guys could be considered sad and desperate losers :P
There'll always be that 10% letting us down.
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Old 26.01.2018, 08:44
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Yeah, those lousy ethics-loving people, eh? I heard they would also refuse donations from heroin smugglers and African despots. Unbelievable. :smh:
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Old 26.01.2018, 08:45
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Great Ormond Street can afford to be picky. They're the Greenpeace of British hospitals.
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Yeah, those lousy ethics-loving people, eh? I heard they would also refuse donations from heroin smugglers and African despots. Unbelievable. :smh:
Your comparisons are absolutely valid.
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Your comparisons are absolutely valid.
You're absolutely correct. Because drunk, rich, older men sexually harassing young women is totally acceptable. I guess you don't really understand what #MeToo is all about.
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You're absolutely correct. Because drunk, rich, older men sexually harassing young women is totally acceptable. I guess you don't really understand what #MeToo is all about.
Just wait until you find out what happens on an average hen night in the UK
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Ron Jeremy won’t be allowed at the porn industry’s biggest award show after multiple accusations of rape and sexual assault.

The legendary porn star has been banned from this weekend’s AVN Adult Entertainment Expo and Awards and the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo convention

Two women claimed he assaulted them at conventions, while another accused him of grabbing her and trying to give her a leg massage at a clothing-optional resort in Jamaica in 2011.
http://www.nydailynews.com/entertain...icle-1.3777832

I thought....ahhh, nevermind... does Ron Jeremy have a Netflix series?
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Just wait until you find out what happens on an average hen night in the UK
I think that you should infiltrate one and write a shocking report. I look forward to the pictures.
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I think that you should infiltrate one and write a shocking report. I look forward to the pictures.
Look at this filth!

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I can see on the surface it's like "cutting the nose off to spite the face" but long-term it can only come back to bite the hospital and its admin. It would be dredged up time and time again leading it to be referred to with screaming headlines like "Scandal-hit children's hospital" forever more.

The donations will most likely be quietly re-routed through a "clean" fundraiser over the coming months and all will be nicely smoothed over, no fuss, no mess, no scantily clad ladies.
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It get's better. By merely attending the dinner is now grounds to be sacked. The age of the witch-hunt is alive and well.

Presidents Club furore claims Labour scalp as party ejects peer
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<<Casey Affleck pulls out of presenting best actress Oscar>>
<<Oscar-winning actor Casey Affleck has pulled out of this year's Academy Awards, his publicist has confirmed. >>

There is no "has had to" in the article. These are really your times, aren't they! You really rely on the masses and think people do not notice and call you out on your little manipulations?!

We should hava "mee too" campaign in Switzerland about common guys. I wouldn't be surprised if you were up on top somewhere. As people who glee are usually the worst, thinking they got away.
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We should hava "mee too" campaign in Switzerland about common guys. I wouldn't be surprised if you were up on top somewhere. As people who glee are usually the worst, thinking they got away.
So you disagree with someone on an internet forum, therefore he must be an actual sexual pervert?

Nope. Not batshit crazy. Not at all.

Smh.
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<<Casey Affleck pulls out of presenting best actress Oscar>>
<<Oscar-winning actor Casey Affleck has pulled out of this year's Academy Awards, his publicist has confirmed. >>

There is no "has had to" in the article. These are really your times, aren't they! You really rely on the masses and think people do not notice and call you out on your little manipulations?!

We should hava "mee too" campaign in Switzerland about common guys. I wouldn't be surprised if you were up on top somewhere. As people who glee are usually the worst, thinking they got away.
I can't help you improve your reading comprehension.

I'll just ignore the second bit.
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Old 26.01.2018, 12:08
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So you disagree with someone on an internet forum, therefore he must be an actual sexual pervert?

Nope. Not batshit crazy. Not at all.

Smh.
Interesting reaction, same skills of manipulating text as I pointed out in my mail.
Related to that journalist who's in the news these days?
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Interesting reaction, same skills of manipulating text as I pointed out in my mail.
Related to that journalist who's in the news these days?
LOL at pulling the "what me?" face.

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We should hava "mee too" campaign in Switzerland about common guys. I wouldn't be surprised if you were up on top somewhere.
To any reasonable reader, that looks like you are implying that Loz1983 is a sexual pervert. Why else would he be "up on top somewhere" of a "me too" campaign?

And here we have, in a nutshell, what's wrong with the whole bloody circus. It's being devalued by people who think it's a great way to drag down people with whom they disagree. Once upon a time you'd just drop hints that they were communists, or atheists, or Jews. Now you imply that they'd be "up on top somewhere" of a list of sexual transgressors.

Plus ca change and all that...
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