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Gay couple from britain looking for friends

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We are gay couple from Britain, new to Switzerland and would like to meet some friends/gay friends.
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Old 07.06.2019, 22:02
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Re: Gay couple from britain looking for friends

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Old 05.08.2019, 16:36
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Re: Gay couple from britain looking for friends

You and your partner have been looking for friends for years now on EF. And yet you continue to introduce yourselves - what up, dude?
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Old 06.08.2019, 09:04
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Re: Gay couple from britain looking for friends

is the gay bit relevant?
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Old 06.08.2019, 09:56
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is the gay bit relevant?



I guess so if they want to expand their experiences.....
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is the gay bit relevant?
Yes. It's a way to say "We're cool, we want to meet cool people only!"
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Yes. It's a way to say "We're cool, we want to meet cool people only!"
Maybe they think it is better to specify all these "details" to spare them from some weird reactions....
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Old 06.08.2019, 11:48
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is the gay bit relevant?
I wondered that. "We are a straight couple from Britain, new to Switzerland and would like to meet some friends/straight friends." would seem rather bigoted.
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Old 06.08.2019, 11:51
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You and your partner have been looking for friends for years now on EF. And yet you continue to introduce yourselves - what up, dude?
Previously they just had a holiday home. Maybe now they've decided to move here permanently.
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Old 06.08.2019, 12:35
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I wondered that. "We are a straight couple from Britain, new to Switzerland and would like to meet some friends/straight friends." would seem rather bigoted.



This is totally unacceptable and racist, please desist immediately
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I am a white male, i want to see other white males. This is wrong.
I am gay, i want to see other gay people. This is not wrong.
why?
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Old 06.08.2019, 13:08
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Re: Gay couple from britain looking for friends

I think you're over-reacting.

The OP said "would like to meet some friends/gay friends".

To me that sounds like an either/or. It doesn't say, non gay people need not apply.
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Old 06.08.2019, 13:27
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I think you're over-reacting.
Oh, not overreacting at all, I couldn't care less about a strangers dating preferences. I was just making an observation and obviously the topic now has turned into something completely different from the intent of the OP...or did it?
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I wondered that. "We are a straight couple from Britain, new to Switzerland and would like to meet some friends/straight friends." would seem rather bigoted.
Guys, it's not rocket science. In the real world that exists outside of the EF-moral-outrage-bubble, being gay can carry a stigma and is not agreeable to everyone, so the OP is obviously just putting it out there to avoid any uncomfortable situations later. To pretend as though there is no prejudice against homosexuality and act as though it is essentially as socially acceptable or as unremarkable as being straight is not doing anyone any favours and borders on wilful ignorance.

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You and your partner have been looking for friends for years now on EF. And yet you continue to introduce yourselves - what up, dude?
What's up with you bumping a 2 month old thread to make a catty comment like that? Extremely petty and unnecessary.

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I am a white male, i want to see other white males. This is wrong.
I am gay, i want to see other gay people. This is not wrong.
why?
Goodness grief gaburko, if you have to ask that question then you really have some problems. Besides, the OP clearly wrote he wants to meet both straight AND gay friends/couples.

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Old 06.08.2019, 15:41
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Guys, it's not rocket science. In the real world that exists outside of the EF-moral-outrage-bubble, being gay can carry a stigma and is not agreeable to everyone, so the OP is obviously just putting it out there to avoid any uncomfortable situations later
Of course. My comment was just that it seems a bit odd.

Ah well, I'll go to the naughty step and count my privileges.
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Re: Gay couple from britain looking for friends

Good day, were about do you live? I’m from Adetswil/ Zürich and would love to make some friends.
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