Ciao.
There are lots of expats and English speakers here. We're just not as obvious as in some of the bigger cities like Zurich or Geneva but we're here and it just requires a little effort to connect!
The Meetup group gets together every month for a drink and you just missed the last outing on Friday night. The group is also on Facebook - search Lugano English Speaking Group - or you have the other link.
http://www.meetup.com/newintown-922
There is an outdoor training group in Parco Ciani on Tuesday nights and Saturday mornings which includes some expats and everyone in the group also speaks English including the trainer.
For more info, email info at special1 dot ch.
There is a Sunday morning group of expats who meet to run or walk and then regroups for caffe at 10am at the Golfo (almost directly opposite the Eden Hotel fountain). Quite a few people just come out for caffe and a chat.
Email runlugano at hotmail dot com for information or to join the mailing list.
Then there are the two big women's groups - the IWCL or American Women in Ticino. Both have websites for more information and both run mixed activities.
http://www.iwcl.org http://www.awot.ch
There is also the Big Ben Club. A slightly older crowd but some youngsters amongst them and you just never know who you might meet.
http://www.bigbenclublugano.ch
Franklin College runs a lecture series in the spring every year with an apero afterwards. It's well supported by the English speaking community and again, a chance to connect with others living here.
http://www.fc.edu/content/about-franklin/lecture-series
Just a few ideas. You get to meet all sorts of people through these groups and can then build your own English speaking network.
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