I think you mean "the guys that I am attracted to aren't looking for anything serious". I am using the app you mentioned for years and I am looking for (very)serious relationship but I barely had any real match here.

If you live on the French part of CH, you can also try meetic or adopteunmec.com, both are French website but they cover the Romandy and I think both are available in English

meetic worked for us!

Tom

I wouldn't describe myself as such, but the women I end up with may choose to disagree.

I've never figured that bit out, but who the hell understands women.

Tom

you mean you met your current partner via Meetic?

Back in 2006, married since 2011.

Several nice women before her.

Tom

When I was young we used to meet and invite the girls to a date at the church/synagogue ....
Even nowadays when I attend the service there’s a lot of women from my age available....

I won’t feel comfortable with tinder or whatever... I’m always supdcious mind that would have a lot of crazy women there....

:-)

Are you from the Middle Ages?

Tinder is 90% for casual sex. There are other sites that are directed at more serious people.

Who the hell goes to "church/synagogue"

Tom

Wife, not partner, I'm not gay!

Tom

Ha Ha! I once went to a Mormon dance held in an activty room at their church. It was quite fun and I got to dance with a crush of mine.

Sweetie, the use of "partner" has no sexual preference connotations. At least, not for me.

My ex housemate met his wife at a church get-together.

Meanwhile, I still have some "interesting" songs on tape that we concocted when she was only the weird neighbor.

Tom

"Partner" for me means no legal connotations.

Tom

I just want to give an insight to 'why women look for the 185+cm guys' ...

Lot of women are 170+ so let's say if she's around 175cm and the guy is the same hight , often it feels a bit awkward. For the simple reason how you see those guys say "i'm 175, 70kg" and most women are 55kg to 65kg ).
so, it all depends on the corpulence but for some girls out there it's like "oh he's my hight and weight ,he's so light I can eat him for breakfast"

I’m old school . I don’t need an app to talk to a women. If you like tinder/badoo/etc go for it.

If Middle Ages mean for you like the things in a real instead of virtual, then I am middle age.

Zuppa !

We are the opposite. I'm 30cm taller and 30kg heavier.

I'm 174, most of my girlfriends were taller, including my late wife (177).

Current wife is 56kg/165.

My younger daughter is also 174, (as well as my wife's daughter), the other 169.

Stepsons are 187/195.

Tom

Any girl who was a churchgoer I avoided like the plague.

You’re getting on a bit, then.

The ideal couple:

Tom