Go Back   English Forum Switzerland > Help & tips > Permits/visas/government  
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #81  
Old 06.08.2021, 13:54
Forum Legend
 
Join Date: Oct 2014
Location: SG
Posts: 10,021
Groaned at 579 Times in 419 Posts
Thanked 13,465 Times in 6,999 Posts
Urs Max has a reputation beyond reputeUrs Max has a reputation beyond reputeUrs Max has a reputation beyond reputeUrs Max has a reputation beyond reputeUrs Max has a reputation beyond reputeUrs Max has a reputation beyond repute
Re: Planned marriage (but not yet divorced) / Visa D / tourist visa

Quote:
View Post
In the meantime, I have some potentially good news: it seems there is a good chance that when the divorce is finally granted, after all the delays, in that non-EU country, the official papers (decree?) will state that this divorcing couple has no children. If that's really the case, it should help a whole lot, to get things sorted out properly, here in Switzerland.
It's impossible for those authorities to know that there are no children elsewhere. What they do know, and presumably will attest to, is that the couple hasn't registered children with them. But the baby will render any such attest void.

The facts will speak for themselves, office personnel can count to nine months, too.
Reply With Quote
This user would like to thank Urs Max for this useful post:
  #82  
Old 06.08.2021, 15:13
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2021
Location: Basel-Stadt
Posts: 336
Groaned at 146 Times in 73 Posts
Thanked 319 Times in 164 Posts
CliiniMuus is considered knowledgeableCliiniMuus is considered knowledgeableCliiniMuus is considered knowledgeable
Re: Planned marriage (but not yet divorced) / Visa D / tourist visa

Quote:
View Post
The person OP described has a track record of bad decision making. . .it is what it is. Sad though, that she's about to bring a child into this world under such circumstances.

We have no clue whether she has established a pattern of bad decision-making, that's somehow different to us all often making mistakes or being flawed humans. This criticism is mere conjecture, and, sadly, gives an unfortunate boost to the degrading, anti-women posts further up.


She, as a woman, owing to her sex, is the sole person who can:
  1. Get pregnant
  2. Carry a baby
  3. Give birth to a baby
  4. Deal with any medical obligations or complications arising during pregnancy
  5. Deal with any medical obligations or complications arising during a birth
  6. Recover from a pregnancy
  7. Recover from a birth
  8. Deal with any lasting medical complications caused by the pregnancy
  9. Deal with any lasting medical complications caused by the birth
Based on doropfitz's posts thus far, the father is involved happily and actively, and this child is wanted by both parents. Therefore, it's curious why we see criticism of Sandra, as it pertains to bringing a baby into the world, but not the man, too, should it be necessary to appoint blame. Once again, this sadly, also gives an unfortunate boost to the degrading, anti-women posts further up.


If we take doropfitz's word for it, as we should, since she's a fair, balanced and ever-kind poster, and the only 1 amongst us to know the people concerned, we can hope the father is involved beyond the birth:
  1. Carrying a fair share of the emotional labour
  2. Willingly taking responsibility for the family's chores in the home
  3. Willingly helping to take care of their kid
  4. Willingly helping his partner, as she recovers from a serious medical procedure
  5. Willingly helping his partner, as she copes with any lasting medical complications
Lastly, if the qualification for being allowed by the internet to have a kid is not having made bad decisions, then there'll be bleak times ahead for all of us, when there are no further generations, as we all have a track record of bad (and good) decision-making.
Reply With Quote
The following 3 users would like to thank CliiniMuus for this useful post:
Reply




Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Marriage on Tourist Visa (migrationasmt vs. civil registry) alphag Permits/visas/government 6 07.05.2021 21:33
Marriage staying with tourist Visa Xilos Permits/visas/government 4 07.11.2016 07:29
Urgent! Entering Switzerland on tourist days while marriage visa is processing MsZizelle Permits/visas/government 2 14.04.2015 23:04
US Citizen Marriage Visa to Swiss National under tourist visa SwissWannaBe Permits/visas/government 19 07.12.2011 23:09
Tourist Visa then marriage to a swiss national s268952 Permits/visas/government 4 30.01.2007 17:48


All times are GMT +2. The time now is 11:30.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2022, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
LinkBacks Enabled by vBSEO 3.1.0