Lots of great posts here on the Tesla.
I'm not a car expert at all, I've only ever owned 1 car before the Tesla and that was a banged up very old volvo v70 (there are pictures of it on here somewhere - I sold it over englishforum). My husband had never owned a car and had wanted not to but having kiddies changed that.
We bought a model X nearly 3 years ago. It has a 97D battery (the smallest battery) which I dont think is sold in the X anymore, after the M3 was released they changed this. On the 97D we get 370/380km (I believe - I may have to double check this). As I mentioned earlier its rarely an issue. When we got the car we didnt have a 3-phase plug in the garage, only 1phase so at the beginning we were actually only charging it at 10km an hour, but leaving it plugged in overnight we found that to be fine. We have now a tesla charger which charges 50km a hour (or you can use a standard 3 phase plug).
Someone was asking about the FW doors. We've had no issues with ours. We've 3 kids who press every bloody button they can

so they have had plenty of testing. No issues.
Regarding cabin noise. I haven't experienced this at all. But I dont have much car experience so I suppose I don't have something to compare it to. The only cabin noise issues we have are the 3 kids screaming in the back
We got the tesla as we needed a car for 3 kids (at the time we needed 3 isofix points) and we wanted hybrid. These 2 criterias greatly reduce your choice in the car market. The car we were going for was the volvo cx90 hybrid. It was new on the market at the time - this is what had us buying a car new and not second hard. The hybrid volvo was about 20k more expensive than its non-hybrid equivalent. At that time, 3 years ago, the new volvo cx90 hybrid worked out only to be about 5k cheaper than the Tesla model X (no added features, smallest battery). So we got the Tesla. It really was a dream purchase for us and as someone who was never really a car person before I now get how people fall in love with cars!
We are both really surprised how much we drive autonomously, wherever possible we had control over to the Tesla and it's incredible. Autonomous driving is also great for when the kids are fighting and I shout back "if you dont stop killing eachother, Ill come back there and do it for you"
I love the "hovercraft" driving feel, I am comparing it to a chuga-chuga old volvo, so not really like with like but it feels lovely to drive.
I think we were both surprised as well about how little charging anxiety we feel. The only charging issue we have experienced is that on a very long drive (over night) it is annoying to have to stop to recharge when the kids are asleep in the back and you want to keep them asleep (ie you just want to get as much of the drive behind you but you have to stop for 20-40mins). So we experience this about twice a year.
I love the release notes. When we go to pick up the girls from their various classes - ballet, gym, Sanskrit for swissies (joking!) - I read the release notes and find out what new things my car can do that it couldn't do a week ago. Love this.
I have to say, if you can afford it, its a great family car. It comfortably sits 3 kiddie seats in the middle row. The car is very low to the ground, much more so that other SUVs or family cars. Yet the roof is normal height. So its very spacious for stretching across (screaming) kiddies and strapping belts. Much less stress on your back and shoulders. There is load of boot and frunk space (as well as all our luggage we can fit buggies and the SUP!).
On the low to the ground aspect. My husband didnt actually like the volvo cx90 as he felt like he was driving a tank. The Tesla X is actually wider than the cx90 but feels less like a tank - I think its due to the very low suspension. You do have to adjust the car, and raise the suspension, if you go down slopes (like into garages for example). This does take getting used to, but the car can remember this once youve done it in a location once.
We love it.
The only gripe I have, that I wasnt expecting is that sometimes the ipad screen and dashboard "doesnt switch on". Sounds odd I know. I dont really know how to describe it, some of the other Tesla owners may have a better term for it. Its a bit like an iphone where the screen is fully dark. Interestingly it can drive like this. You have to hold 2 buttons down on the steering wheel and reboot it like an iphone. An iphone on wheels. Over the last 3 years I think this has happened 3 times. I did contact Tesla about this and the answer I got back was "its a computer".